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Friday, 17 June 2011

7 different facts

7 things that will scare me:
  • Losing my baby
  • Losing the sense of security..
  • Life without him
  • the blurred future
  • Bugs & Insects
  • Reptiles (snakes..... =.=)
  • Not knowing what is what

7 random facts about me
  • will always loving him
  • witty & Serious at the same time  
  • love spending time with my daughter and family
  • loves stuff toys!!!
  • always carries a book with me wherever I go
  • am very protective over the ones I love
  • loves being a mum
7 things I hope to do before I die
  • Get to be someone great... (naahhhh definately in my dreams)
  • Have more kids (More siblings for my daughter ^^)
  • telling him everything bout how much i love him
  • understanding and learning bout everyone
  • Watch my daughter grow up
  • Turn back time?
7 things I can do
  • can be very friendly and very mean at the same time
  • talk non-stop about anything (babble)
  • sleep like a pig
  • will go all way out to make him happy
  • play the piano? I'm musically talented
  • Read a book non stop for the whole day
  • hear and play .... ^^ music......
7 things I cannot do
  • cannot live without my daughter
  • be nice to people that are such fakers
  • stop listening to music
  • stop taking photographs
  • stop being my real self to everyone
  • quit reading
  • cannot stop loving him


    Sunday, 12 June 2011

    Is sex the only happy factor in a marriage?

    Is Sex the Only Happy Factor in a Marriage?
    A Happy Man, A Happy Home


    A very interesting topic once again, I found, from The Star Online website....... First it was the news that a club known as the "Obedient Wives Club" has been founded in Malaysia to better and further educate the women folk on how to keep their men tied to them... and then now these distressing newspaper ads......


    Being 10,000km away from home (aka Malaysia)..... I somehow can´t help but keep in touch with the news over there... especially when everyone seems to be sharing such "wonderful" news via facebook....... 


    Makes me curious..... 


    How obedient do people in Malaysia wants the women folks to be? Is every man who hits or rapes or abuses a woman because of not having a good and caring wife? Have anyone come to the conclusion that the man himself probably grew up in an abusive environment? Or that.... he turned pervert and not because of the woman´s fault?


    So is it the woman´s fault also when the man has roving eyes when he sees another woman walking by and his wife sitting directly beside him? 


    This is not about the wife not being caring and loving or even always misunderstanding her man.... it´s also about the man not being "responsible" over his own actions. It always takes two hands to clap... with one hand, you can´t clap nor make a sound out of it. It´s the same with relationships. So.... I would like to ask then..... what´s the point of being a 101% loving and caring wife when the husband doesn´t even know how to appreciate it and just feels that.... "its not enough"?


    Have you ever seen a woman who gave up completely everything of her own, just because of her love for her husband? Only to be blamed later that she doesn´t trust him and care for him?



    Wednesday, 8 June 2011

    June 2011

    Another brand new month started.....


    With it, starts my daughter´s kindergarden. 


    My beautiful growing daughter started school on the 1st of June 2011, Wednesday. It was a nice cold windy day for a starting of school. She woke up easily, and is still waking up quite easily for school (prays it lasts long ;)), and prepared for school very promptly. The glow and joy in her eyes was extremely unbuyable... even until today, her 2nd week in school, she is still glowing with happiness whenever it´s time for school...... 


    Anyway, as school has started for her, so it has also started for me....... we now have such a strange schedule, I am still trying to keep myself in it..... after having so long "break" from work and studying......... 


    Going to school together in the morning with my daughter is indeed great..... we wake up together, have some short time together, before I walk her to school.... she has breakfast in school, together with lunch *yummy*........  leaving me a slight hour break before picking her up from her kindergarten... :)


    My daughter is growing older... *sighs*


    Can´t I keep her a baby forever? :-x :)

    Friday, 20 May 2011

    My 29th Birthday Celebration

    Ok..... so 19th May....


    I am officially now 29 years old!


    My first birthday far away from home and having my daughter by my side is indeed the most beautiful gift I can ever have!


    Spent the day touring Berlin and this time, our destination was the Berlin Zoo and Aquarium situated at Budapester Straße 32 in Berlin Germany. The zoo is humongous and with quite many vast animals that I nor Amelia have ever seen even at the Singapore Zoo that we went like 2 years ago! But the most important thing about it all was that the environment of the zoo is so natural, and no cages like what we see back home at Zoo Negara and it´s even wider and bigger than the one in Singapore. Natural habitats thats what the animals were in.....


    But the most amazing thing, was that the Zoo is clean and looking "new"....... the people that visited the zoo actually know how to preserve and take care of the zoo... unlike the people who visits Zoo Negara back home in Malaysia..... must be the upbringing huh?


    People here never even put a single piece of rubbish on the floor... but back home, its kinda like vice versa xD


    Anyways........ The outing was good. The whole day was spent at the zoo...... we didn´t even managed to get a birthday cake cos by the time we are home, Amelia was completely zonked out! xD


    The day was good, the surprise was even more greater! :D

    Monday, 9 May 2011

    Happy Mother´s Day

    Here´s wishing a very "belated" Happy Mother´s Day to all the wonderful mothers out there.... including my wonderful mum who is like 10,000 km away from me at the moment! 

    I hope your Mother´s Day was indeed a special event that was celebrated with your loved ones, children and husband... :)

    We had our very own special mother´s day celebration by touring Alexanderplatz and then enjoying the cold cold water at the fountain for the day...... was indeed a memorable event and my daughter finally overcome her fear of the water, and even enjoyed playing in the water together with the little children.... *so long as they don´t splash water on her face or she doesn´t fall down*

    It´s a good start...... that she overcome this fear... eventually I probably might even be able to teach her swimming!! :D

    For full photos of our Mother´s Day : 8/5/2011 Mother´s Day Out

    Friday, 6 May 2011

    The sunny blue skies

    It's wonderful having this much time out with my daughter.

    As I lie down on the grass in the midst of the park watching my daughter plucking wild flowers and other people all around the park lying around, having picnics or playing ball / frisbee, I can't help but wonder..... How is it we don't have so much natural parks with woods and wildlife back home? How is it people back in Malaysia only have time for work and social but never for the ones they love or their families?

    What are we missing out on?

    Money isn't the greatest thing. People here in Germany need them too... To survive. But... Why would they have the time to spare for their wives and kids and we Asians don't?

    I'm envious.... Watching families in whole take the time to spend with each other in the parks. Why cant Amelia have that too?

    I love my baby girl alot... And am willing to give her everything for a better life. But this is one part I fail, since long ago. *sighs*

    Is it too much to ask for?

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    Friday, 29 April 2011

    The Royal Wedding Commences

    29th April 2011..... 

    The day has arrived... and today is the royal wedding..... the Royal wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton. Thankfully, the weather was bright and sunny and perfect for a wedding!!! :D


    Amazing how many people take the opportunity to just travel all the way to London to see this wedding in person...... but then again, somehow I guess it would boosts UK´s economy more *grins*






     Prince William and Catherine Middleton say their vows

     You can actually find the whole wedding live, from the arrival of the guests since 8am in the morning till now when the newly weds exchange their vows from the TV, to the internet to live streams online!


    Kate Middleton looks extremely stunning in her self designed wedding gown, although I have to admit that she does look kinda thinner than the many months I have seen her pics online and such.... maybe she is overstressed from preparing for the wedding that she lost many many many kgs... :-x 


    The internet is congested at the moment. Video streams are kinda laggy.... and most funnily... I am watching the wedding translated into german on TV as the video streams crack down online -.- 


    But you can still watch it if you want.... at The Royal Channel where you can watch it in youtube quality, thanks to Denise for linking it into facebook...... it was definitely much better quality in picture wise and sound wise compared to the one I found via searching in Google..... 


    And now... back to the TV to watch the remaining of the wedding......


    ps : Prince William ain´t looking as adorable and handsome as when I first "crush" on him when we were little kids... *ROFL*

    Saturday, 23 April 2011

    PM: Corruption, leakages affecting nation’s economic performance

    PM: Corruption, leakages affecting nation’s economic performance

    So the government finally sees the dangers and the stupidity and the seriousness of the corruptions and the leakages in the country and is finally... and I repeat, FINALLY taking more drastic actions to make it a better place..... but.... is it too late? Can the country still be saved with their drastic actions now, after this has been like happening for god knows how many donkey years ago?

    Sunday, 17 April 2011

    Stop, you are on candid camera

    Stop, you are on candid camera

    Sunday April 17, 2011


    Stop, you are on candid camera


    By HARIATI AZIZAN and THO XIN YI
    sunday@thestar.com.my




    There are no funny antics or naked limbs in this video but it became a hit on YouTube the minute it was uploaded.

    WE all seem to know someone or someone who knows someone who has been a victim of a smash-and-snatch theft. Last week, Kuala Lumpur chief police officer Deputy Comm Datuk Zulkifli Abdullah was reported as saying such cases were on the decline but the way people are talking, it seems this “new variation” of street crime is rampant.

    In this evolved form of the crime, instead of preying on pedestrians, the snatch thieves “attack” lone motorists when they are waiting for the traffic lights to change at junctions or when they are stuck in peak hour traffic.

    Caught in the act: The YouTube video uploaded by Seow showing two snatch thieves on a motorbike attacking a motorist near Section 16, PJ, went viral and had more than 300,000 hits within a week.

    On their motorcycles, usually with a partner, the culprits would tail the driver they are targeting and wait for the opportune time to smash the car window and grab the victim's valuables.

    Too many, especially women, have fallen victims to these unscrupulous criminals. Unfortunately, these crimes are difficult to solve as they are committed in the blink of an eye.

    However, it might just change if a new phenomenon catches on video evidence from in-car video surveillance camera. Such video evidence was uploaded on YouTube early this month, creating an online sensation.

    Eagle eye: Seow showing the video surveillance equipment in his car. He caught attention when he posted his footage of two smash-and-snatch thieves attacking a motorist.

    Shot from a car that was behind the victim's car, the 23-second video clip captured the street crime as it unfolded in Section 16, Petaling Jaya.

    The footage shows two men on a motorcycle approaching the car at a traffic light junction. Within seconds, the pillion rider had smashed the passenger window, grabbed the driver's bag and sped off.

    The video recorded 89,000 hits a week after it went online. As of yesterday, over 335,000 people have viewed it. Even the owner of the footage, security consultant Benjamin Seow, is amazed at how his video has caught on.

    “The main reason I uploaded the video on YouTube was to get in touch with the victim. I feel a bit guilty for not doing more to help her on that day and I thought that at the very least, I should pass her the video for use as evidence in her case,” says Seow who is known as Bigggmouth online.

    As he explains, he had wanted to stop and help the victim, but she drove off before he could do anything. “I wound my car window down and gestured to her to stop by the road side but she was frozen in shock. As soon as she recovered, she drove away.

    “I was a bit disappointed but I guess she must have been so traumatised that the sight of me this strange man excitedly flailing his arms at her frightened her more,” he says.

    He admits that he has received some flak from Netizens who criticised him for not helping her when it happened. There were others who accused him of using her misfortune to get cheap publicity.

    However, he is not letting the nasty comments bother him as through YouTube he has managed to connect with the victim and agreed to be a witness in the police investigation of her case.

    The victim, 26-year-old occasions architect Chen Qian, admits that she was so distressed after the incident that all she wanted to do was to get to the police station straightaway.

    “I was on my way to church in that area and had left my handbag on the front passenger's seat. When the thieves smashed my window, I honestly thought someone was going to hurt or kill me. I screamed my lungs out and tried honking but the (traffic) light had changed so I thought it was best to get out of the way,” she recalls. And when she saw the thieves driving straight on, she knew she would not be able to catch up with them.

    “I was so far behind the traffic. In any case, I wouldn't know what to do even if I had. I was still in shock so I picked up my friend from Damansara and made a report at the SS2 police station immediately.

    “On hindsight, I wish I had stayed where I was because I could have asked if any of the other drivers had managed to catch the motorcycle's number plate,” she says. Seow believes that snatch thieves choose their crime sites carefully to prevent other motorists from helping the victims.

    “Usually they will pick busy roads to make it difficult for other motorists to stop them. I would not have thought twice about ramming my car into them on that day but there was no way I could move my car, much less catch up to them,” he says.

    After witnessing the crime for himself, Seow says he can now understand the shock and trauma that victims go through in such incidents. “Everything happened so fast that I too needed time to recover, and I was just a witness. Many times people blame the victim for not reacting fast enough.”

    He feels it is also why the video had a lot of hits: “People are simply shocked at how fast the crime was carried out only a few seconds.” Seow says he installed his in-car CCTV equipment about a year ago but this was the first time that he had caught such a crime on camera.

    “I got interested in the in-car video system when I saw how many cars in Japan and Korea have these cameras. In fact, over there the in-car cameras are now provided when you buy a new car.

    “I realised that it made a lot of sense to have such an equipment. When you get involved in an accident or when something happens to your wife or children in the car or when they get out of the car, you have evidence.”

    But he stresses that the in-car camera cannot be a deterrent for unwanted incidents. “In Japan and Korea, for example, they are used to settle disputes in accidents,” he says. Still, Seow encourages drivers to instal a surveillance camera in their car. “If more people have it, they can help prevent street crime.”

    He says the surveillance cameras are available in any electrical shop and even on the Net. “You can search online where many cameras from China and Taiwan are available. Once you have bought one, you can get it installed at any car accessory shop. It is very simple to mount.” The footage initially gave Chen hope of seeing her case resolved.

    “When I saw the video, my first thought was, that's my car!' I was actually quite traumatised when the robbery happened, and watching it again made me relive the experience.

    “But after the initial shock, I was hopeful that perhaps the video managed to capture the thieves' number plate, and that I should try to get in touch with the videographer' so that I can hand the information over to the police,” she shares.

    She left a message for Seow, and their correspondence soon started. Last Monday, they went to make a police report at the Sea Park (SS2) p olice station. There, they were told that the crime scene falls under the Taman Tun Dr Ismail jurisdiction and they had to go there to make the report and send the evidence.

    “The inspector I spoke to was polite but didn't seem to know anything about the video on YouTube. I think she probably doesn't watch YouTube.” Chen says she did not really expect the police to catch the guys but she wishes that a bit more had been done.

    Like Chen, Seow is also disappointed that the crime seems to be low on the police's priority list. “There is so much that t he police can do,” he says, pointing out that the particular spot at Section 16 seems to be a hot area for smash-and-snatch thieves.

    One problem, he feels, is that too many drivers, especially women drivers, are still careless about their safety. “Many leave their handbags on the passenger seat, which makes them easy targets. The snatch thieves seem to make their decision on that basis.”

    Chen agrees and is now advising fellow women drivers to stay vigilant always. “Do not put your handbag on the passenger seat. Lock your doors. Keep your phone with you. Don't put all your money in your handbag. Keep some cash on you.” She says that before the incident, she tended to drive on autopilot, especially on a route that she takes often.

    “But since the robbery, I have been more cautious and look in the rear view and side mirrors often, especially when motorcyclists come close.” More importantly, advises Seow, drivers should secure their car by installing security film or safety tint on their side windows.

    “It is about profiling for the criminals. If I was a snatch thief, I will not choose a car that is armoured' or strong. I'll choose a small, weak' car, with windows that are not tinted or secured. I'll chose a woman driver because they are easier targets and are more vulnerable,” he says.

    That is another reason why he uploaded the video on YouTube, he says: to raise awareness of the dangers of the crime so that it can be prevented. “It can happen to anyone yourself, your wife, your mother, your sister, your daughters.” Crucially, he hopes to get the word out there to the snatch thieves: “You are being videoed and may not get away so easily next time.”
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    Monday, 11 April 2011

    Baking our hearts out

    Another nice sunny Sunday morning we had......

    This time, we didn´t spend our time out in the woods under the sun. We did something different instead. Baking!!!!

    Amelia was fascinated with baking..... as I have never done it back home after having her (And I barely touch the kitchen for many reasons) she was altogether interested in watching us baking instead of sitting in the hallway watching tv...... Was just a simple cake we baked, a simple chocolate sponge cake. It came out a success actually, and coming to a great conclusion.... we should do baking together once a month! Messing ourselves in the kitchen and all... ;) Guess I need to start researching and google up for more baking recipes via the internet! Its hard to get recipe books down here as my German is superbly low at the moment..... Would take ages before I am that a professional to start cooking or even baking via a German book! Hahahaha But then..... I just got this recipe from the chocolate milk powder box we bought for Amelia to drink ;) 

    So hence we decided to try it out cos it wasn´t that difficult and we managed to get all the ingredients from it at just one spot... :)


    Mixing of ingredients was fast... didn´t have to take hours, just..... 30 mins before we are done... though we were sneaking taste from it occasionally.. OMG... the chocolate cream that was produced out from it is deliciously wonderful!!!!  Then..... before everything finishes, we finally put the "donut" cake into the oven to be baked for 1 hour...... Amelia was jumping happily and kept asking when is it done all the time! Hahahaha She is getting very extremely impatient to start eating the cake we started baking ^^


    But... overall, the cake turned out a success.... I´m happy and satisfied about it... being able to do such stuff together as a family. It´s indeed something I always wished for....... doing things together as a family.... and not half done....


    Speaking of half done.....


    We had webcam with my parents today and also with my ex husband (this I was genuinely surprised). AMazingly, a lot of emotions streamed through me seeing him via webcam, and even more seeing him having tears in his eyes..... Sometimes I wished that life would be one less complicating... especially on me and my ex husband. I wonder if we would ever be able to reconcile and be friends, good friends at least .... for our daughter´s sakes. But oh well.. who am I to even ask and think of it?


    Some emotions are better left closed up forever... especially when we have both moved on.... especially me. But..... I am only human...... and it´s 12 long years with many memories good and bad with him. 


    But I guess, like a post from a fellow friend, titled Reconciliation in Love, its something I would really wanna try doing, although its now only to be maintained as friends. Sometimes, I guess I will always forever and ever love him, like what I always told him when we were together 


    很久以前,我对你说过不论发生了什么事,我是会永远爱你。。。。是没骗你的。。对不起。。。你永远都是我第一个最心爱的。