Is sex the only happy factor in a marriage?

Is Sex the Only Happy Factor in a Marriage?
A Happy Man, A Happy Home


A very interesting topic once again, I found, from The Star Online website....... First it was the news that a club known as the "Obedient Wives Club" has been founded in Malaysia to better and further educate the women folk on how to keep their men tied to them... and then now these distressing newspaper ads......


Being 10,000km away from home (aka Malaysia)..... I somehow can´t help but keep in touch with the news over there... especially when everyone seems to be sharing such "wonderful" news via facebook....... 


Makes me curious..... 


How obedient do people in Malaysia wants the women folks to be? Is every man who hits or rapes or abuses a woman because of not having a good and caring wife? Have anyone come to the conclusion that the man himself probably grew up in an abusive environment? Or that.... he turned pervert and not because of the woman´s fault?


So is it the woman´s fault also when the man has roving eyes when he sees another woman walking by and his wife sitting directly beside him? 


This is not about the wife not being caring and loving or even always misunderstanding her man.... it´s also about the man not being "responsible" over his own actions. It always takes two hands to clap... with one hand, you can´t clap nor make a sound out of it. It´s the same with relationships. So.... I would like to ask then..... what´s the point of being a 101% loving and caring wife when the husband doesn´t even know how to appreciate it and just feels that.... "its not enough"?


Have you ever seen a woman who gave up completely everything of her own, just because of her love for her husband? Only to be blamed later that she doesn´t trust him and care for him?